My grandmother

by Chantal
(Oakbank)

My grandmother is controlling my life and I don't know what to do. So what should I do?

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Oct 05, 2015
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Good post
by: Arnold Blanda

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Jul 09, 2015
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informative
by: Hayes

I think your problem regarding your Grandmother and wife is not clear. Your wife is not like a baby, she also have mind to think and how anyone have fully control to others. You must talk about your wife alone with very polite manner and love. I sure that she will understand your talk and do according your will. in my point of view it's only one way to get the solution of this problem. I hope you must try it. well! I'm looking help to get affordable writing services but still no one found for help.

Jun 11, 2015
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Good post
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Mar 28, 2014
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Grandmothers know best?
by: Leona

You have not said how she is controlling your life. You have not told us what you want and what she wants and how these things are in conflict. Most grandmothers have a lot of life experience they can share. That doesn't mean you live your life for her. You live your own life and make your own decisions. Wars have been fought for just this type of freedom. But what is your culture? What is your background? My grandmother was a selfish old woman who disliked me. I found out later that her son was not my real father. This is why she used me as a target for her own hate. I was just a little girl and she created so much fear and shame for me. I never knew why until I grew up. My childhood was made more difficult by an unloving woman who had much control over it. I was punished for things she pointed out to my parents. Like the time I watched a TV show she didn't approve of. It was all about her power to control and the esteem she felt when my parents did as she wished where I was concerned. I was treated unfairly and without love by this woman. You need to tell more about your situation. The telling helps you see it more objectively and helps with your decision making. This is your life, I hope you are able to make wise decisions. A grandmother who loves you may be trying to save you much heart ache.

Mar 24, 2014
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Based on your circumstances...
by: Anonymous

A few more details about your situation would help. The main thing is not to let anyone drag you down.

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